Friday, October 21, 2022

HOW MUCH SCREENTIME IS TOO MUCH SCREENTIME FOR MY CHILD?

 





HOW MUCH SCREENTIME IS TOO MUCH SCREENTIME FOR MY CHILD?

 

INTRODUCTION

“Shh! Shhh! what is she doing?” Kelvin asked

“She is using her phone, I think she is on Facebook as usual” his sister responded

“Mum, Mum, Mummy, we are bored” they both chorus

“Please, I am busy, go and watch a cartoon on T.V or play a game on your Play station”

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“What sort of noise is this? Why can’t you kids be quiet for once?”  Their daddy barked

“We are sorry dad, we were just bored so we decided to play ‘tag’ game” the children responded

“Now go to your room, all of you, and watch T.V, and don’t come out until evening” Dad ordered

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“These children will never allow someone to discuss in peace” Mrs. Okey complained

“My sister, please don’t mind them, they are all like that. My children do the same” Mrs. Chude responded

“Adaobi, please go and tell your siblings to keep quiet, I have a visitor”

“Mummy, can we go outside to play instead?” Adaobi replied

“No, don’t play outside, all of you should go and watch T.V in the sitting room” Mrs. Okey responded

Turning to her friend, Mrs. Okey says “Television has to be the next best thing after a fat bank account, it is every mother’s saving grace, hahaha, hahaha”

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Is she right?

Is the T.V Screen really our saving grace?

Is it really ok for our kids to sit glued to the TV screen watching programs for hours?

Is it possible that several hours of sitting before the screen could be harming our children?

If too much screen time is harmful to our kids then, is the “peace” it affords us as parents worth the harm it does to our children?

 

Join me on this piece let’s look at the dangers of too much screen time for our children, how much screen time is too much screen time and as we share healthier alternatives (activities) to excessive screen time.

 

WHAT IS SCREEN TIME

Wikipedia defines Screen time as the amount of time spent using (watching) any electronic device with a screen like smartphones, computers, television, or video game console. In most of our homes, one or two or even all of these gadgets are present and available for the kids to use anytime and anyhow they like.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, it is strongly advised that children below 18-24 months should not be allowed to use a screen of any kind. This stand is corroborated by WHO. The screen can only be introduced when a child is 2 years and above and even then the screen view must be, timed, structured and purposeful. Children of different age ranges have different recommended daily screen time schedules. The chart below is a recommended guide for screen time for your children.


           

                                                                 Screen Time Chart


World-leading brain scientist Patricia Kuhl, who runs experiments with over 4,000 babies yearly says they have discovered that babies do not learn from machines rather they learn from human interaction. It has been proven that off-screen experiences for toddlers, enhance, their cognitive, socio-emotional, and language development skills

Children do not get the skills that they require to thrive on the screen (Wendy Ologe). The screen captivates the attention of the child so much that when it is taken away, they find it hard to concentrate on anything else.

According to a 2019 citation by WHO on the topic “Guidelines on physical activity, sedentary behavior and sleep for children under 5 years of age,” it was noted that for children to grow up healthy they must reduce their sitting time which is often spent in front of the screen and play more and sleep well. This guideline was developed by a team of WHO panel of experts

 Even though our focus is on children but statistics have it that over 23% of adults and 80% of adolescents are not as active as they need to be able to maintain a healthy lifestyle and this accounts for over 5 million deaths all over the world, yearly

The negative effect of too much screen time is too dire to be ignored. Let’s look at some of them

 

 

DANGERS OF EXCESSIVE SCREEN TIME

It has been discovered that screen use beyond the recommended screen time has adverse effects on children. Let’s look at some of these effects.

 

Ø  Loss Of Focus And Concentration - Excessive screen time for children reduces the attention span of children, especially in class. Notice how focused children are when they are watching the screen, it captivates and holds their attention so much that anything that is not on the screen will not hold their focus and concentration. So when you complain that your kids don’t concentrate in class, remember that you share in the blame because you exposed them to too much screen.

 

Ø  Eye Problems: Screens emit blue light and children’s eyes don’t filter it well. The blue light that the screen emits causes retinal damage (known as phototoxicity) in your children’s eyes and causes blurry vision. New studies suggest that this might cause permanent eye damage. Some studies believe that constant use of the screen can lead to an increase in the occurrence of the eye defect “Myopia” (Nearsightedness).

                             

Ø  Inability to Attain Developmental Milestones: Toddlers, who are exposed to excessive screen time usually have delays in the attainment of their developmental milestones, especially in the area of cognition and language development. A test carried out on excessive screen users found them to score very low in thinking and language tests.

 

Ø  Interference with Sleep Time and Sleep Quality:  In humans, the production of the hormone, melatonin which is responsible for sleep, usually begins in the evening. When children are exposed to screens at night times, the blue light emitted by the screen inhibits the production of melatonin, and this delays sleep, causing the brain to be highly alert and the body less ready to sleep. This will affect overall alertness the next day and will lead to a befuddled mind and foggy brain.

 


Ø  Premature cortical thinning of the brain: When some 18-year-olds with gaming addiction were observed it was discovered that they had lower grey matter volume in so many vital parts of their brain. Grey matter is the outermost layer of the brain and it contains many neuronal cell bodies. It occupies the regions of the brain responsible for memory, self-control, decision-making, emotions, speech, muscle control, and sensory perceptions like seeing and hearing. So these abilities will be greatly hampered.

 

Ø  Lack Of Social Skills Due To Social Isolation: Children who are glued to the screen which is an elusive environment (unreal world), get cut off from the real world and lose out on social interaction with real people (family and friends). So you will notice that when they encounter people their communication skills are usually poor.  This social isolation is also linked to high rates of emotional problems like moodiness, depression, and suicide. Research has shown that children who engage in activity-based programs are more likely to live longer and healthier.

 

Ø  Lack of Executive Functioning Skills: Executive functioning skills are the necessary skill your child requires to be able to thrive and succeed in life. Most of these skills are learnt as a child interacts with others, and his environment, and as he encounters challenges and leverages the lessons and knowledge he has acquired to proffer solutions to those problems. Examples of these executive functioning skills include; critical thinking, problem-solving, self-control, time management, etc.

              


Ø Less Family Interaction and Bonding Time: In so many homes there is rarely a time set aside for bonding and interaction because everyone is busy with the gadget. The father is on his computer system, the kids are either watching T.V or playing a game on their game console and the mother is busy with her phone surfing social media spaces. Everyone is in his/her world alienated from each other. This is quite detrimental as it is impacting on the family structure. Children don’t confide in their parents whom they perceive as being too busy and teachable moments are missed out on.


Ø  Screen Addiction. This is an extreme condition because research has proven that screen addiction causes the same harm to the brain as cocaine addiction does. Some children are so addicted to the screen that taking the screen away from them causes them to be disoriented. What’s more, recent studies have linked high screen exposure of children of about 1 year to the development of autism spectrum disorder at 3 years and above.

Other effects include; excessive weight gain (obesity,) due to less physical activity, poor posture especially for phone and tablet users who always bend when they are using it, overactivity of the brain, etc.

The list is endless. Most research is ongoing to discover other effects if there is of excessive screen time for children.

 

 

STEPS TO HELP YOU ACHIEVE SCREENTIME REDUCTION AND REGULATION

  v  Connect with your children and be involved in the plays and off-screen activities you introduce.

  v  Create a screen time checklist. This checklist is a guide that details all the activities they must carry out before they get a chance to be on the screen. Screen time should also have its time duration. Depending on the area in which your child is in dire need of development, you can structure the guide to strengthen those areas. If for instance, you want to strengthen your child’s executive functioning skills, adding cooking to that list would be a good idea. If it is in the area of reading, then adding a reading-related activity is a good option. 

  v  Place a limit on screen time access and ensure they comply. You could also place a curfew. Like “no screen 1 hour before bedtime or during exams period”, “no screen while eating”, “no screen during bedtime, etc.

  v  Keep T.Vs away from the children’s room and for your older children educate them on gadget use, also educate them on good online behaviour

  v  Also model appropriate screen use as the adult in the home.

  v  You could also try watching with them as much as you can. It helps you put a check on what they watch, and how long they watch and you can also spot teachable moments in the program to teach them

  v  Go big on exercise, healthy nutrition, and sleep.

  v  If they need the screen to do school projects and homework, encourage them to take frequent breaks. The American Optometric Association recommends the 20/20/20 rule. This rule says that you must look away from the screen after every 20 minutes and focus on an object that is at least 20 feet away for 20 seconds.

 


 

Healthier Alternatives to Screen time

There are so many highly beneficial activities you can introduce to your kids when you reduce screen time so they won’t be bored and idle. Some of them include;

·         Educational Games - Jigsaw puzzles, word puzzles, Sudoku, building with Lego, Charade, Spot the difference, chess, scrabble, etc.

·          Arts - Writing, reading,  journaling, drawing, painting, crafts making, Origami

·         Indoor Physical Activities – Dancing, cooking, aerobics, house chores, etc.

·         Outdoor Physical Activities- Biking, racing, playing tag, jumping rope,

·         Recreational Activities – Visit to the park, short walks.

·         Spiritual Exercises – Praying, Bible study, Meditation, etc.

The list is inexhaustible, think and be creative. You could also do some research to get more

    
          Chess game                   Puzzles                      Praying                          Biking


Conclusion

Years from now children will suffer severely from lack of focus and concentration and other fallouts of excessive screen time. We need to start correcting this anomaly that has made parents resort to using the screen as nannies or pacifiers or worse still as a show of affluence because our children will bear the brunt of our ignorance. Like I said before the skills that your children need to thrive in this 21st century are not found on the screen, they are learnt as your children interact with their social ( human) and physical environment.

 Hope you have found this piece insightful, please do drop a comment

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